Never settle, Sore: The power of not settling as a single mother.

Life is truly remarkable, filled with unlimited opportunities for growth and transformation but as a single mom we choose to feed into the society's stereotypes and fall easily into the temptation of settling for less.

I was one of them, I settled with a relationship in which I was never happy and I always felt worthless. I settled with having to constantly prove that I was worth love, attention and affection in all relationships.

In all aspects of life, careers, relationships and even personal we often surrender to the gravitational pull of mediocrity but what if we take back control and shatter the stereotypes and strive for greatness.

Single moms embrace your full potential, NEVER settle and mark your path of self-discovery.

Now, I invite you to explore the importance of not settling for less and five exercises to get a head start on your vital transformation. First if you don’t already know you possess a unique strength and resilience that can lead you to achieve extraordinary things. The circumstances that lead you to this point do not define you, you have all the power within you to redefine your narrative.

Settling for less undermines your true potential and capabilities so, break the mold, forget about those you tell you, you can’t and do it for you.

In order to succeed we must take action. You have to take the steps forward to build your greatness, here are 5 steps you can take:

1. Self-Reflect: Write down your strengths, passion, goals and reflect on them. When you understand who you are and what you truly want, this will help align your transformation and draw you closer to your authentic self.

2. Set Goals: Put your goals down the long-term and short-term. Really define them and this will help give you clarity and direction.

3. Health & wellness: your physical and mental well-being is a TOP priority. Incorporate movement into your life and other self-care activities like meditation and mindfulness.

4. Search for role models/mentors: Connect with other successful moms. See them for guidance, learn from one another and watch how together you will inspire and motivate each other.

5. Celebrate all your wins: Celebrate and recognize your progress. Don’t get discouraged based on the size stay focused and giving yourself a pat on the back will help keep you motivated and build up the momentum in your life transformation.

Don’t forget that, transformations are a gradual process. It will take time so be kind to yourself and have patience. Every single step you take, the big ones and the small ones, are all steps that will bring you closer to a life you deserve and always envisioned for yourself and don’t be afraid to ask for support along the way.

Jenifer xo

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